It’s not selfish to do things that make us happy or that bring us joy. To often we go out of our way to please others to the exclusion of all else. This boxes us in. While it may be good for them it is not good for us. However, by doing what is good for us or what brings us joy we are helping ourselves to experience life and what it has to offer us. it makes us happier, and healthier!
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